BDSM Basics

A spreader bar can introduce more structured positioning into consensual bondage and BDSM play. Unlike soft ties or separate cuffs, a spreader bar holds the restrained person’s wrists or ankles...

Choosing handcuffs or bondage restraints can feel more complicated than expected. Metal handcuffs, padded cuffs, silky ties, under-mattress systems and full-body restraints can all limit movement, but they create very...